Ask for attention!

We all need attention.
'Quality time' is priceless.
If you're not getting enough,
Ask for it!
It will come. Not always immediately.
We may need to negotiate ... a little give and take?
What joy, to get what we need!

Are you good at choosing and asking for what you want?

No?
Ever wondered why?
How does it feel not to have your needs recognized and met?
What needs to change so they are?
Choose and ask for what you want.
Then, and only then, can you negotiate about the order in which all choices are met.
Yours and others'.

We define ourselves with these.

"Meeting and paying attention to boundaries." - NbHa

Boundaries abound in physicality.

What do we do when we sense them?

Respect them?

Attack them?

What we want isn't necessarily what others want.

Se we violate, negotiate or walk away.

What's it to be?