No choice but to accept?

Not true!
There's always a choice.
Consequences will differ.
Someone may be upset or offended.
That someone could even be you,
If you don't make the right choice for yourself.
So accept who and how you are, then choose.

Are you good at choosing and asking for what you want?

Does this depend on what we mean by good? No!
We know what 'good' means in this context.
We can feel how good we are at this.
So, can you choose?
And ask?
Choosing is one thing. Asking is another!
And can you accept no as an answer?

Are you grateful for your body?

The size and shape of your body are choices.
Gratitude is also choice.
A feeling. A gift.
An act.
An attitude.
A responsibility.
A permit.

What is your gratitude permitting?

No choice but to face temptation!

Biscuits, cake, bread, chocolate
All present in abundance this weekend
Lovingly brought by workshop delegates for shared meals
All resisted by me
Without the feeling of missing out
Temptation tamed!
Yes.

I choose to agree ... unless I don't!

You either agree, or you don't!
Agreement is more than mental assent.
It's a feeling.
We need to consult our feelings to fully know whether we agree with a particular choice.
So ... how does it feel, to agree fully?
It feels really good, doesn't it?
If it doesn't, think and feel again!

Ask yourself ... "Do I really want this?"

Take responsibility for the choices you make

Don't blame others. And don't blame yourself!
Learn from your mistakes.
If something isn't working, it doesn't make you feel good.
Don't do it anymore. Change something. Make a different choice.
Easier said than done - perhaps. Unless you really see yourself acting differently, before the event!
Take responsibility for your choices - now, and feel good about them.
Only then can we really be happy, knowing we are the master of our own destiny.

Are you good at choosing and asking for what you want?

No?
Ever wondered why?
How does it feel not to have your needs recognized and met?
What needs to change so they are?
Choose and ask for what you want.
Then, and only then, can you negotiate about the order in which all choices are met.
Yours and others'.

Realize the choices you make.

Say No to others' choices if they're not what you want.
Think about what you really want instead.
Consult your feelings.
Then choose and act.
Go for what gives you pleasure.
Without regrets.
It's the only way we can all be happy, isn't it?

Choice is a gift.

Unless we give, we can't receive.
We are always the first to receive in the act of giving.
Doesn't it feel good to give a gift?
No strings attached.
Just the shear pleasure of giving a well-chosen gift.
No strings attached?
What joy!

Make each choice a gift!

Curious about choices and those you make?

We all make choices all the time, even when we don't!
What choices are you making?
Do they serve you & make you feel good about yourself?
If not, make different choices.
Learn how to choose & how to ask for what you choose.
Otherwise no-one, including yourself, can ever give you what you desire.
Where's the fun in that?

Choose how satisfied you are!

There's always a choice!

Even when we don't choose.
That's a choice.
It doesn't feel as good. It's not as empowering.
Making up your own mind and acting on it ...
That's choice!
If what you choose is not 'right' for you ...
Then, you've learned something really valuable.

We all choose, all the time

"A complete choice." - NcGc

A choice isn't a choice until it is!

Wavering isn't choosing.

Liking both or many options is OK.

Choosing cuts a path.

I'm going this way, not that way.

Regret is pointless - or is it?

Whatever you choose is fine - it's your life!

Feeling thanks.

"Feeling good about gratitude" - NcTg

How do I know

What's best for me?

I feel like giving thanks - positive gratitude.

My whole being is in alignment.

I'm on track.

No apology necessary.

All is well.

Don't settle for less than your best

"Is this best, for me?" - NcHe

Don't sabotage yourSelf.

Think.

Do I really want this?

If not, decide to do something else.

Something that serves you better.

What's best for you is what's best for others.

Don't doubt it.

I have no choice?

"There's no such thing as no choice!" - NcNc

I choose.

Consciously or unconsciously.

I choose what I want.

Always.

Making choices conscious choices,

That's the challenge.

I can do it.

No choice but to agree?

"No choice but to agree is not agreement, unless it is!" - YaNc

I don't agree!

That's interesting. Why is that?

It doesn't feel right.

OK. What can we do to help change things ...

For the better?

Listen.

We can do that. Let's do that.

Repair is a gift that re-pairs!

"Following remorse, the gift of repair is release." - SRTG

Repair is a choice that reaffirms boundaries.

It's an energetic exchange.

It's a gift that restores balance and harmony.

It must be completed ...

... to the satisfaction of all involved.

Then and only then can repair re-pair.

Agreed?