Forgive yourself - release guilt and blame.

Guilt and blame are not helpful.
Except as indicators that the past (an old habit?) still has a hold on you.
Feeling good right now, every new moment, is all that matters.
Anything motivated by, or resulting in, guilt or blame is wrong. Don't do it!
Be responsible.
Accountable for all your actions.
Therein lies freedom - freedom to choose who and how you are!

Are your exchanges clean and clear?

This is not about 'dumping' unwanted things on others.
It's about being clear exactly what you have to give and receive.
Checking that the exchange is fair.
Then moving on.
Continuing on your way.
Unencumbered by guilt or blame.
Enjoying every moment.

What are you Sorry for?

Nothing?
Are you sure?
Fabulous, if it's true.
Otherwise, what's to be done?
Make amends.
Then and only then can you release guilt and blame.
Is it really worth it?

Take responsibility for the choices you make

Don't blame others. And don't blame yourself!
Learn from your mistakes.
If something isn't working, it doesn't make you feel good.
Don't do it anymore. Change something. Make a different choice.
Easier said than done - perhaps. Unless you really see yourself acting differently, before the event!
Take responsibility for your choices - now, and feel good about them.
Only then can we really be happy, knowing we are the master of our own destiny.

When you make mistakes, do you celebrate them?

Are you mostly free from guilt and shame?
We can learn from our mistakes
If we let ourselves feel genuine remorse
And consequently decide to repair the damage and move on.
Another lesson learned. Another notch on our bed of wisdom.
Sorry ain't Sorry unless it releases everyone from guilt, blame and shame.
Let's celebrate our mistakes, feel Sorry, learn and apply the hard-won lessons.

Can you say Sorry and mean it? And what does Sorry mean?

Are you good at choosing and asking for what you want?

No?
Then are you a people-pleaser?
It feels good when those around us have what they want.
But what about what WE want?
If we're not getting what we want because we're no good at choosing and asking for it,
then, it's likely we're always doing what others want, which will eventually lead to resentment and blame.
And that's not good!

Have the courage to choose and ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT!

It's impossible to be helped until what's wanted is known - SPEAK UP!

Cut it out!

Fix it, or get rid of it.
If it no longer serves you, be done with it.
Otherwise it's just a burden - a heavy, unnecessary load.
Put it down. Let it go. Leave it behind.
Oh, what freedom! What delight - to walk on without it.
No blame. No shame. No guilt.
It was what it was, and now you are what you are - lighter!

End activities and habits that no longer serve your well-being

Do you wake up feeling enthusiastic?

Set clear boundaries.
Don't worry about what you're missing.
Enjoy what you have.
It's a better way to be.
You can always move your boundaries later, if you wish.
Without guilt or blame.
Be enthusiastic, about your entire life!

Try these free tests and become more enthusiastic about life!

Who loses?

"Isn't it sad when we don't take responsibility?" - NiSr

When no-one takes responsibility,

its easy to blame others,

anyone, except ourselves,

for harmful actions or inaction.

Let's stand up and be counted,

especially when we make mistakes.

Isn't that better for everyone?

Surrender to the urge?

"Instinctive impulses are good ... usually!" - YsSr

Release all guilt and blame.

They serve no-one.

Least of all you.

Live life to the full.

Do whatever that means for you.

Consider all consequences.

They're part of it!

Don't fight Sorry. Embrace it.

"Sorry is positively OK. What a relief!" - SRYS

Surrender (positively) to Sorry & the benefits of release from guilt and blame.

What a wonderful idea!

It's great feeling good about being Sorry.

Embrace release from guilt.

Blame no-one.

Need no apology.

Release the tension of separation. Reuniting is beautiful.

What do you expect?

"Beyond what the mirror reflects is how I want to be. I see and expect it." - SRPP

Our bodies don't lie and neither do our scales.

We know what we expect.

Even if we don't like it!

The trick is to decide to make and then expect things to be different.

VisuaL-eyes, IN-tend, and expect what you do want.

Release all guilt and blame.

What will be is what you will!

Touching can be very telling!

"The gift of for-giving touches the heart and releases tears of relief, re-Life, gratitude and joy." - SRTH

Forgiving grudgingly is not for-giving.

Spiteful and malicious thoughts don't help.

They only harm.

Tear them out. Let them go and move on.

Revitalise your future, free from guilt and blame.

Expect success.

It's there for the taking.

On track ... just!

"I don't like being overweight!" - SRNT

I've lost 23 lbs in 23 weeks!

The idea is to lose 28 lbs in 28 weeks.

Being 'on track' feels good. Being 'off track' doesn't.

Leaving old eating habits behind requires decision & discipline.

I will and expect to achieve my weight loss goals.

Releasing all guilt and blame about previous 'bad' habits would be good.

I need to re-Learn the reaL ease of reLease.

No need to feel bad ... for long!

"Repairing, 'making good', enables me to exchange feeling bad for feeling good." - SRHE

When we discover we've caused harm,

Think and check exactly what harm has been done and how.

It's likely, we'll feel differently about it than others.

What can be done?

Ask ... "How can I make amends?"

Repair the damage.

And then agree all bad feeling (guilt and blame) is gone - great!

Finding fault, fixing it & feeling fine!

"I feel remorse (sad) when I mistake negative (not bad) thoughts and feelings (not guilt) about my weight, shape and health as part of my identity." - SRNI

It's OK to feel sad but not bad when we make mistakes.

Don't feel guilty or b-Lame. Guilt and blame help no-one.

Find the fault, find a way to fix it, and feel fine.