Forgive yourself - release guilt and blame.

Guilt and blame are not helpful.
Except as indicators that the past (an old habit?) still has a hold on you.
Feeling good right now, every new moment, is all that matters.
Anything motivated by, or resulting in, guilt or blame is wrong. Don't do it!
Be responsible.
Accountable for all your actions.
Therein lies freedom - freedom to choose who and how you are!

Are your exchanges clean and clear?

This is not about 'dumping' unwanted things on others.
It's about being clear exactly what you have to give and receive.
Checking that the exchange is fair.
Then moving on.
Continuing on your way.
Unencumbered by guilt or blame.
Enjoying every moment.

What are you Sorry for?

Nothing?
Are you sure?
Fabulous, if it's true.
Otherwise, what's to be done?
Make amends.
Then and only then can you release guilt and blame.
Is it really worth it?

When you make mistakes, do you celebrate them?

Are you mostly free from guilt and shame?
We can learn from our mistakes
If we let ourselves feel genuine remorse
And consequently decide to repair the damage and move on.
Another lesson learned. Another notch on our bed of wisdom.
Sorry ain't Sorry unless it releases everyone from guilt, blame and shame.
Let's celebrate our mistakes, feel Sorry, learn and apply the hard-won lessons.

Can you say Sorry and mean it? And what does Sorry mean?

Cut it out!

Fix it, or get rid of it.
If it no longer serves you, be done with it.
Otherwise it's just a burden - a heavy, unnecessary load.
Put it down. Let it go. Leave it behind.
Oh, what freedom! What delight - to walk on without it.
No blame. No shame. No guilt.
It was what it was, and now you are what you are - lighter!

End activities and habits that no longer serve your well-being

Do you have a healthy and varied social life?

Do you say 'Hello' too often? I do.
It means I sometimes feel overwhelmed with all that's going on in my life.
What's the answer? Value far more what I already have, and practice saying No to more new things.
I can also cut out unhelpful habits and activities to create more space in my life.
Then I can do more of what I really enjoy.
Without feeling guilty.
"Healthy" is the key here!

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Do you stick to your No decisions?

Can you say No, easily?  And when you do, do you stick to it?
When is it more difficult?
Saying Yes just to please others isn't a good idea.  It creates feelings of resentment.
Just say No!
Then you can do, or continue to do, exactly and only what you want to do.
There's no need to apologize or feel guilty.
Accepting that we all have the right to say No will make the world a better place.

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Do you wake up feeling enthusiastic?

Set clear boundaries.
Don't worry about what you're missing.
Enjoy what you have.
It's a better way to be.
You can always move your boundaries later, if you wish.
Without guilt or blame.
Be enthusiastic, about your entire life!

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Surrender to the urge?

"Instinctive impulses are good ... usually!" - YsSr

Release all guilt and blame.

They serve no-one.

Least of all you.

Live life to the full.

Do whatever that means for you.

Consider all consequences.

They're part of it!

Don't fight Sorry. Embrace it.

"Sorry is positively OK. What a relief!" - SRYS

Surrender (positively) to Sorry & the benefits of release from guilt and blame.

What a wonderful idea!

It's great feeling good about being Sorry.

Embrace release from guilt.

Blame no-one.

Need no apology.

Release the tension of separation. Reuniting is beautiful.

What do you expect?

"Beyond what the mirror reflects is how I want to be. I see and expect it." - SRPP

Our bodies don't lie and neither do our scales.

We know what we expect.

Even if we don't like it!

The trick is to decide to make and then expect things to be different.

VisuaL-eyes, IN-tend, and expect what you do want.

Release all guilt and blame.

What will be is what you will!

Touching can be very telling!

"The gift of for-giving touches the heart and releases tears of relief, re-Life, gratitude and joy." - SRTH

Forgiving grudgingly is not for-giving.

Spiteful and malicious thoughts don't help.

They only harm.

Tear them out. Let them go and move on.

Revitalise your future, free from guilt and blame.

Expect success.

It's there for the taking.

On track ... just!

"I don't like being overweight!" - SRNT

I've lost 23 lbs in 23 weeks!

The idea is to lose 28 lbs in 28 weeks.

Being 'on track' feels good. Being 'off track' doesn't.

Leaving old eating habits behind requires decision & discipline.

I will and expect to achieve my weight loss goals.

Releasing all guilt and blame about previous 'bad' habits would be good.

I need to re-Learn the reaL ease of reLease.

No need to feel bad ... for long!

"Repairing, 'making good', enables me to exchange feeling bad for feeling good." - SRHE

When we discover we've caused harm,

Think and check exactly what harm has been done and how.

It's likely, we'll feel differently about it than others.

What can be done?

Ask ... "How can I make amends?"

Repair the damage.

And then agree all bad feeling (guilt and blame) is gone - great!

Finding fault, fixing it & feeling fine!

"I feel remorse (sad) when I mistake negative (not bad) thoughts and feelings (not guilt) about my weight, shape and health as part of my identity." - SRNI

It's OK to feel sad but not bad when we make mistakes.

Don't feel guilty or b-Lame. Guilt and blame help no-one.

Find the fault, find a way to fix it, and feel fine.