Please ask!

I'm not a mind reader.
How can I know what you want if you don't say?
And when I ask what you want, it's infuriating when you say "Please yourself."
I can do that ... please myself, without knowing what you want.
But sometimes I want to know what you want.
And you need to tell me, honestly.
Then we can start negotiating.

Are you good at choosing and asking for what you want?