Let's start from here - accepting where we are

"Identifying the problem" - NiYa

Do I accept who I am?

Am I sure?

Do I like who I am?

Do I want to change anything?

What do I want to change?

Who will that affect?

Does it matter?

Identifying who I am by what I'm doing

"My decisions create my identity." - NiGd

What I do

Is who I am.

I may not like all I do now.

That's OK. I can change things.

When I do only what I want to do

I don't have to apologise for being inauthentic.

Authenticity celebrates unique identity.

Knowing who you are!

"Identifying what you are not." - NiNi

I most definitely am not someone who ........

What?

That! (What?)

OK.

What are you then?

Whatever I choose to be.

Great! What do choose to be right now?